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Dream Symbol: Cheat, Cheating, Cheated

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Dream meaning: Cheat, Cheating, Cheated

To dream of a spouse or partner cheating on you may simply indicate that you are feeling insecure about the relations ship (consciously or unconsciously) . Or it could reflect suspicions you have about your partner’s possible infidelity. Of course this doesn’t necessarily mean that your suspicions are justified.

In some cases it could also be an expression of one’s own feelings of sexual inadequacy. It could also reveal a secret desire to have one’s partner engage in sexual relations with someone else.

For young persons to dream that they are being cheated in games, it may reveal their fear that they will lose their sweethearts through quarrels and misunderstandings.

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112 Personal Dreams and Interpretations so far ↓

  • vick // Mar 16, 2016 at 1:08 pm

    I have dreamed that I was being cheated on and also have gotten pregnant in a dream 3 times and it was true. I dreamed it again and I told him. He said that’s crazy and got mad so pretty much he told on his self right or wrong

  • Jessica // Jul 16, 2015 at 7:52 pm

    Does anyone wake up, ask their partner if it’s true whilst crying, they say no and roll over? What happened to reassurance hugs/kisses or even I love you???

  • peaches // Apr 20, 2015 at 12:05 pm

    A year or two ago I was with my ex boyfreind I cheated on him and he had a dream and fliped out on me I reassured him it was only a dream now I have a new boyfriend who I have caught texting other girls n sending pics to eachother that stopped all together but I am having alot of dreams of him cheating its crazy I dont kno what to do bexause my ex bfs dream was right what if mines are……but im with him everyday almost all day except when he goes to work I do have trust issues with him alot I will jabe to ne away from him for two months and I dont trust he will be faithfull.

  • abby // Mar 25, 2015 at 6:32 pm

    I had a dream last night where my girlfriend was cheating with my own cousin and once i found out about their relationship, they killed me. Once I woke up, I asked my girlfriend if she was cheating on me and she said no and she never has! What does this dream mean?

  • nikkie // Jan 5, 2015 at 11:42 pm

    My dream was I caught my boyfriend cheating on me and sex in our house on my couch with my sister.
    Now i can’t sleep. I know it was a dream but it hurt like hell.

  • Emma // Dec 17, 2014 at 9:27 am

    I had a dream last night where I was having an affair and my best friend told my boyfriend. He ended it with me and he hated me. It was such a horrible dream and my boyfriend and best friend got together! It was so realistic that when I woke up I was so relieved to be in bed with him still!! I have never cheated and never would. What does that mean? I don’t have any fantasies about anyone else either.

  • kay // Dec 2, 2014 at 10:06 am

    I have been having basically the same dream for about 2 months now. The end result in every dream and the plot of every dream is the same. I have been married for 3 years but have been with my husband for 11 years. I am 27 and we have 4 kids. In a dream I had 2 nights ago we were at home and he said he had to go to the store and when he came back he was driving a completely different car and there was a second car that pulled up and inside was a woman a little younger then me with a son around 5 years of age. He was telling me he was leaving me for her and that he is going to take care of her and her son. (Mind you my husband is an amazing father) and the woman (which bothers me most) and her family are completely fine with the fact that she is seeing a married man and taking him from is children. Then last night my dream was pretty much the same. But this time he told me we were going to go on a drive and have the day to ourselves. And we ended you in some town 2 hours away at a family owned restaurant, when we walked in he knew the older woman that owned the restaurant and her daughter that was only a few years younger then me. And she was very beautiful just like the girls in the other dreams (but every girl is pretty similar looking. Curvy small waste, dark hair, light eyes big lips and a sweet personality) . And as the day progressed and the conversations got following it was brought up that I was my husband best friend and nothing more. As to what he had told these people. And then it was brought up that he was seeing the younger woman and takes good care of her and her son that is about 5. I confronted the situation and again the younger woman and her family were fine with her seeing a married man and ruining the lives of his family. Could this mean that my husband is seeing a younger woman with a small child and is going to walk out in me and my children? And ever since I had the first dream about 2 months ago I have noticed a change in my husband. He seems more distracted and distant. I have told him about the dreams and he just laughs and says how rediculous they are. I wake up every time with my heart beating and tears on my cheeks. And I feel like it’s happening or has happened.

  • Kay // Nov 29, 2014 at 5:53 am

    I know this is super long but it’s worth the reading. I was staying with my boyfriend for a couple months he has two roommates a girl and a boy, they were dating eachother. Then one night I randomly had a dream of my boy friend and his girl roommate I walked in on them having sex with eachother! But I didn’t think anything of it cause his guy roommate that’s his best friend and I knew he wouldn’t do anything like that to him. Then one night we were all smoking in their room the girls boy friend walked out and then I walked out to get something to drink as I walk back about to open the door I was over hearing them talking in a way I NEVER heard them talk before like they never even talk really but they were talking like if they had something going on. So ever since that night I would ALWAYS catch them staring at eachother not to mention we have a 2 year old girl together but then I would think to myself that he would never do that to us I always get this bad vibe when we’re all in the same room. So that dream I had in the beginning when I started staying there maybe something is going on between them I would always confront him about it but he would deny it I still have dreams about them and that’s cause she doesn’t even live here anymore. You think they still have something going on like you think their texting or something?

  • J // Aug 11, 2014 at 7:48 am

    I’ve had reoccuring dreams about my current boyfriend sleeping with one of his close female friends that he has had sex with before. (About a year before we met they slept together once and decided to be friends). They’re super close and he talks to her a lot. He’s even told her intimate details about our relationship. I’ve never met this chick. Last nights dreams was so realistic I feel it’s happening. We’re going to visit in a few weeks where she lives and he wants me to meet her and I’m afraid that my suspicions and dreams are coming true. Just recently he’s asked me what I would do if he cheated. I’m trying to trust him but it’s really hard with this chick. My gut is telling me something is up..

  • Ruairi // Aug 8, 2014 at 1:15 am

    I’ve had 3 of these dreams in the past 4 nights the first one my girlfriend texted me and said that she wasn’t happy and she wanted to end it then I woke up and was checking my messages to make sure it was real because it felt realistic then funnily enough the night after was the same dream only she texted me telling me she misses me still loves me and wants me back and I went back no questions asked 🙁 I can’t remember the details of yesterday nights but last nights was the worst. We were walking home from the shop in a town I moved from 3 years ago and something happened and I asked her to give me her phone because I had the strongest feeling she was talking to someone and right enough she was and she had arrange for him to go to dinner to see if she liked him and she told me that she wanted us to break up then we had a massive fight in the middle of the shopping centre and she told me I was to clingy and at times when I isolate myself from her and our group it makes her feel like shit and the day I had this dream I did walk off on the group and dididnt tell anyone where I was going but she came looking for me and in my dream she actually said “you isolte yourself from me like last night”

    This is really creeping me out we have had a past of cheating: I was with her for 3 weeks then we broke up because she wasn’t over her ex and didn’t think it was fair on me then regretted it instantly but by the time I found out I had a lot of lust for another girl then when me and her were together me and my current girlfriend kinda kissed each other

  • Shay // Jul 18, 2014 at 11:32 am

    Just like everyone else who’s submitted an interpretation on here, I have also been having multiple dreams of my boyfriend of one year cheating on me or leaving me for another girl. I want to say that I’ve had somewhere between 5-10 dreams about it. Once was with his ex, and the rest were all with different girls who I cannot identify and have not seen before. They are seem to be beautiful girls. I can remember almost every detail about 3 of them but have absolutely no clue who they are. I told my boyfriend about it and he simply tells me not to dream, as if it’s something I could control.. There is only one time that he has came close to cheating and it was about 4-5 months into our relationship and he was talking to a girl I had known behind my back while we were taking a break. I have no other knowledge of him cheating or even so much as flirting with another girl.. However, I have been feeling rather alone and confused recently. Maybe insecure as well. Could that be what is causing it? Or could he be cheating on me? I really would like to have some comfort with this because it’s definitely taken an emotional toll on me..

  • Chris // Jul 8, 2014 at 2:26 pm

    I keep having dreams that another girl is interested in me an I think I’m falling for them but I never do anything sexual with them as I have a girlfriend. Always in my dream I tell the other girl (who is never any girl I know) that I can’t do anything cause I have a partner. Although I feel as if I love the person I know I owe my partner to not cheat on her. I wanna know why I keep being tempted in my dreams? I mean I’m proud that I don’t cheat but why does the dream re-occur

  • Tes // Jul 2, 2014 at 12:53 am

    Hi, I had a dream last night that my best friend and my ex were flirting with eachother and my best friend suggested that my ex stay at her flat, in real life she used to say to me he’s no good for you leave him… I have a feeling now after my dream that maybe she isn’t a true friend she’s just after my ex as she hasn’t had a bf in two years, I have two children with my ex and he swears he wants me back but how do I feel comfortable having my ex and best friend in the same room after the dream I had, is she really trying to get with my ex? Was my dream a sign? Should I be worried as the other day she asked if me and my ex were back together or not

  • Lisa // Jun 26, 2014 at 6:39 am

    I’m 7 months pregnant and found out my boyfriend had sex with a room mate. I felt something was wrong the day he did it and the next day he told me . I took him back but i now have bad trust issues with him and the past 2 nights i have been having dreams of him telling me he does not love me or he’s cheating on me. I live in PA now and he lives 1 hour & 45 min away. It’s getting to the point I’m questioning him and him thinking I’m crazy. Am I?

  • foolmeonce // Jun 13, 2014 at 5:08 am

    the only thing i can recommend is to tell them you “trust” them and let the guilt take over

  • foolmeonce // Jun 13, 2014 at 5:06 am

    ive been in a relationship for 2 years and ive had 5 dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me of course my boyfriend denied/lied and said it was just a dream. but a year later he did confess to cheating several times ive yet to cheat on him cause im not a scumbag so idk what to do at this point.

  • mp // Apr 15, 2014 at 3:16 am

    I have the same problem as AE..it never fails..If I have a dream that he is cheating I find something out or I’ll wake up in the middle of sleep and find something out..This has happened like 100 times. .even when I had the dream he got her pregnant I kept asking him he denied it to the end..my dream told me she was pregnant and was having a girl..my dream was confirmed 1 week after I delivered my son by the girls sister…so I started having dreams again and I don’t want them. .i had enough and it just upsets me and has me stressed out

  • AE // Feb 10, 2014 at 8:27 am

    I have dreams about my boyfriend all the time cheating ever since i was pregnant with our first child and im usually right. i check his phone or go on his facebook and surprise i get enough info to find out that hes having sexual relations, calling, texting, to these females… LAst night i had one of the worst dreams i cried out so loud and i couldnt stop.I try not to allow it to effect me on a daily but it eats at me. i try to tell him about it but he usually hangs up on me or gets mad. idk its stressful but i trust my dreams its like a sign to me!

  • Yvette // Jan 17, 2014 at 12:28 am

    I randomly have had dreams of my boyfriend/fiancé/now husband cheating on me. Usually it’s with his ex who he has no contact with. But tonight, it was a horridly vivid dream where he’s cheating on me with my own sister! And no matter who he is with in the dream, I get so angry and hurt and he doesn’t care in the slightest. And sometimes even when I wake I can’t get rid of the anger and pain! Tonight’s dream was so bad I woke up crying and even threw up! I know there is no chance in the world of him ever cheating on me…. Or vise versa! How do I get these dreams to stop!

  • alysha // Nov 26, 2013 at 7:57 am

    Im still stuck on the fact that like, the third comment from “renee” was about her hisband marrying a white woman. Why would that even matter? The post is about cheating. Who cares if they are white. People just cant leave race out. It always has to be a black or white thing.

  • jose // Sep 30, 2013 at 1:48 pm

    What doe’s it mean when you think that your lover cheated on you then days later you dream her telling you almost exactly what you thought about her cheating on you

  • Renee // Jun 30, 2013 at 11:00 am

    I dreamed my husband married a white woman

  • A // Jun 6, 2013 at 12:24 am

    I am having a recurring dream about my now-fiancé cheating on me. It started before we were engaged (but were living together), with a one-time affair that I happened to pick up on after it had happened. I had dreams almost exactly like this, just with a different female that I/we knew each time, probably three times. Last night, I dreamed that we were at a party here at our home, and that I went looking for him for one reason or another but couldn’t find him. When I did, he was with a girl that I graduated high school with, but that he has never met, obviously being inappropriate but not in the act. In the ensuing fight, though, I discovered that he had been sleeping with her, and two or three other girls, for at least six months. He laughed it off. To add insult to injury, our dog, our SON for all intensive purposes, followed him as we both stormed off in opposite directions and wouldn’t come back to me no matter how I called, cried and pleaded. Tonight (I just woke up, actually), I had virtually the same dream, except I caught him in the act with one girl, and not only did he act as though this was ok, but afterwards she and I had a conversation in which she told me that it was no big deal, whether we were engaged or not. He then took my wallet, paid for his and her drinks and left me sitting there, a hot mess.

    I have absolutely ZERO doubts about his fidelity – past, present or future. We are both extremely frustrated with these dreams, and just want to know WHY I am having them?! There has to be some trigger, or else I wouldn’t have had such a similar dream 5+ times now. They need to stop, because they are so realistic – the people, their faces, clothes, smells, noises, everything is so real! – that I find it immensely difficult to bring myself back to reality, to the loyal fiancé that I DO have, once I have woken up from this/these dream(s). Please, please, PLEASE help us!

  • Brenda // Jun 2, 2013 at 10:09 pm

    Ive had very very strange dreams of my bf at the time, of cheating on me, in one… and it turns out very eerily true, i described this women from her head to her feet, the dress she was wearing her hair etc… and exactly waht happened as if i was there seeing it? all … very disturbing… indeed but to my shock it was EXACTLY what had happened with that bf at that time, a few days before.. he looked like he saw a ghose when i came at him mad asking him about it!
    now my latest bf (now ex bf) I had a very simular type dream, but this one was very clear too, but im not 100% sure it was exactly what ended up going on or not? cause he never admited but he never denied either? and a few weeks later he ended up dumping me out of the clear blue, and his daughter and his EX whome i saw in this dream riding with him in his van, came to see me and some other people in this apt or motel? idk very odd.. but she got out and walked pasted me? but …. in my GUT i feel this dream is true…that he’s back with his ex again. long story..
    just wondered what are the odds of this happening? having basicly a vision in your dreams of things that have happened? sooo clear..and its exactly what has happened?
    i dont have thos often but i can usualy always find out if a man is cheating or not being faithfull, it comes to me in a dream/vison
    i wish i could manage to vision other things not just that… would be nice! lol
    lottery numbers? maybe lol

  • Whitney // May 29, 2013 at 8:27 am

    I have a a dream for the past 2 nights where me and my boyfriend were at a party and when I come bk from the bathroom, I just sit and watch him. A girl that I have never seen before ask him to kiss her at first he says not then he is like yea come on. So they start kissing and I jump up to let him know I seen him. I then leave him and call my ex boyfriend (that he hates) and set up for him to come over. We go out with my kids and my daughter gets hurt. Then out of nowhere my boyfriend shows up and takes her home. I keep seeing my boyfriend and this girl together because now they have been dating since the day I caught them kissing. In my dream I feel a lot of pressure in my chest as if I am heart broke. I then pull him to the side and as if he is hurt about me leaving him and if he misses me and he says no?? That crushes me even more. Then that is when I wake up. Ca anyone tell me why I am having this dream over and over?

  • Nat // Feb 21, 2013 at 5:36 am

    Hello, i have had two dreams and both different but same storyline. I keep having these affairs with two random men, we do not have sex we just kiss and flirt…its nice and exciting. The entire time i am dreaming i feel as though i am single being courted by a handsome man but it comes to a point in my dream where i know i am hiding this from my husband. Its very strange, i wake up feeling anxious not guilty as i know its a dream but i am wondering why.
    Thank you for you time and have a good day

  • sarah // Nov 19, 2012 at 2:15 am

    I’ve been having dreams quite frequently about my boyfriend cheating on me. But this one seemed to stick with me. We were both at a party which was at his best friend’s house. I walk away from him as I see my friend and go to talk to her. In the meantime some girl is all over him and hes doing nothing to stop it. When I go to look for him i go straight upstairs without checking anywhere else and walk in on him and this girl having sex. Im just shocked and stand there , he sees me jumps up says sorry and trys to come near me , just as i was about to say something i wake up. i just felt so real, I dont know if its me being paranoid, as my boyfriend and I have been having some trouble recently where I saw his phone and he was speaking to another girl. We’re both trying to work past it but I guess I just don’t trust him anymore.

  • Christina // Oct 18, 2012 at 3:37 am

    I keep having reoccuring dreams where my boyfriend either cheats or leaves me. He has done it before in real life, but I feel like we have grown from that. What could these dreams mean? Could it be my anxiety? I always mention something to him and he gets angry so I’m trying not to talk about it anymore and just let it go, and move on from that stage in the relationship. Could these dreams just be me trying to forget the past? Or does it have another deeper meaning to it?

  • nick // Sep 7, 2012 at 7:44 am

    I have been with my gf for 3yrs. Things were going well till she cheated on me twice, one after another. We have resolved the issue and are back together. However, I keep having recurring dreams of her cheating on me with the 2 men. This is killing me. I don’t know if I trust her but I really love her. Pls help. I need to stop these dreams. I have tried lucid dreaming by simulating the dreams into a better one before I go to bed but it doesn’t work.

  • confused/distrusting // May 28, 2012 at 5:13 am

    my husband cheated on me for a year when his mistress phoned me to tell me. My world turned upside down, cried everyday, only my kids to help me out. Gave him another chance but, still can’t trust him ever. I love him as do my kids and granddaughter. Be taking therapy, on ambien to sleep. So stressed out, and no dreams I could remember. One time I didn’t take ambien and dreamed of him going back to his mistress, woke up crying like it was so real to me. In my dream he told me he was tired of the drama, I was so upset I went and beat the crap out of his mistress. Then, he came back to me. What does this dream mean? Back on ambien again, don’t want to remember my dreams. Living this nightmare was bad enough in real life.

  • kelly // Apr 27, 2012 at 2:57 am

    ive been having a reoccuring dream for the past 3weeks and every time i wake up crying, it starts of me and a friend just sat talking and smoking :/ then my partner comes over and tells my friend to leave, once she’s gone my partner then says kelly i’ve cheated on you, i say who really calmly and he says a name but for the life of me i can never hear it, i see a girl quite a distance away and i think thats the one he cheated on me with but im not sure, then i get angry and start running and i feel like im being chased by someone, i then wake up crying after an eventful dream but whenever i talk to my partner about it in real life he never talks about it, he just tries to turn it into a joke. i cant just sit here and forget about it though as lastnight just beause it was there and i kno its wrong i took his phone to have a look couldnt find nothing but he left himself logged on, on facebok so i had a look as you do and found he’s been messaging a much prettier blonde and liking all her half naked photos. i havnt said anything to him as i dont want him to know i went on his phone let alone his facebook, but now i dont know what to do, could it all link together?

    please help. 🙁 x

  • Diva // Mar 14, 2012 at 8:06 am

    I asked you to do a love spell for me back in February. And indeed it worked! You had told me that it could take up to 3 days in order to see results. I can confirm that me and my partner are back together and very happy! I would like to thank you for all your help. You were always there to answer each one of my MANY emails and to give me advice. What I like is that my partner didn’t change his behaviour, he’s exactly the same person, the love spell just helped him to rethink about what had happened between us. thanks

  • Serg // Mar 14, 2012 at 1:14 am

    I had a dream last night I caught my girl kissing another guy. Apparently she knew him in the dream, She was stopped in the driver seat, he was at the window of the car. I was watching un-noticed by the perps. It was almost like an “Ok gotta go, I’ll see you next time” kiss on the lips. They noticed me right after the kiss occurred. I was hurt & red. When busted, its almost like she & the guy are both embarassed of getting caught. She got out the car to explain, the guy drove off with her car. I didn’t like the feeling when I awoke from bed.

    After waking up from that uneasy dream, I went on with my day like everyone does. My girl had got her nails done. The weird thing is she got my name on them. I found that very weird. Also a woman told me one time ago it is bad luck when a girl puts a mans name on her nails.

    I got some doubts about this girl.
    Seriously .. the dream & the name on the nails. Seems almost like guilty conscience or trying to get on my good side. Any replies welcomed.

  • In shock // Feb 17, 2012 at 6:59 am

    I had a dream that my boyfriend had lied about who he was. That his name wasn’t his real name, that he used lots of different names with lots of different women. There was a lot of sexual activity and some fear and anxiety in my dream. Can anyone shed any light on this dream?

  • Sara // Jan 10, 2012 at 2:48 pm

    I had a dream that I came home and saw my man sitting on our bed in his robe. We spoke normally for a while until I heard the tap in the bathroom. I ran to see who it was and this girl turned around wearing my robe! Straight away I knew he had cheated on me and I grabbed the girl and started slapping her many times. At the same time I was telling her to stay away from him. Then he came up and put his arms around her go protect her from me cos she was crying. I said that he must’ve loved her to Protect her and he said yes. I was furious and started screaming, throwing things around and hitting things, crying at the same time. Thats when I woke up crying. I dont know what my dream means but he has cheated on me before and he doesnt like me looking through his phone. The past is the past but im worried about the present and future. Is he cheating or thinking of cheating on me? I’ve tried to leave him many times but I love him so much I keep coming back…

  • idk // Nov 27, 2011 at 12:34 pm

    I just had a dream where i was on the phone with my boyfriend, and i kept accidentally hanging up on him. I’d call him back and it was loud in the background because he was at a party. He didn’t sound happy, and I asked if he was on anything. He didn’t respond and hung up. Five minutes later I recieved three pictures someone else took of him having sex with a random girl in a bathroom, then I woke up.
    I think it’s because i’n afraid to lose him because I don’t feel the least bit insecure about our relationship. We’ve only been together for two, almost three months. Is it weird to be having these dreams already?

  • mia // Oct 18, 2011 at 4:10 am

    I dreamed that I slept in the same bed with my cousin’s husband, but we did not have sex. It’s like he was acting like we were together. His arms were wrapped around my waist. I was trying to wake up and get up but I couldnt. My cousin walked into the room and then walked back out. Then she went into the bathroom. Then I woke up.

  • Kiwi // Oct 8, 2011 at 5:13 pm

    I had a nightmare this morning. It was so real, I woke up feeling very hurt and betrayed. In the dream I went to visit my bf at his place and he quickly let me in but was in the middle of a shower and ran back into the bathroom to finish. I am planning to stay over so I start unpacking my stuff on his couch. He’s taking a really long time. Finally I go and push open the bathroom door and he steps out followed by a girl wrapped in a lavender towel. She looks very familiar, she is young, blonde and a little curvy and very sweet looking. I am shocked as I realize they had been taking a shower together. I don’t know what to say. My bf lies and smiles as he introduces us saying “Ash, this is my sister’s friend, Kiwi, this is Ashley”
    I say nothing as I am trying to piece everything together. He comes with me to the other room.
    I say “Whats going on? what are you DOING??”
    He says guiltily, “I told you we were just friends”
    I look at him and shake my head saying “what you’re doing is so sooo wrong”
    He seems really concerned about the girl in the other room and walks out to be with her saying “we are going to go out now.”
    He knows me well enough and is counting on the fact that I will not cause a scene. I am not the type to yell and scream.
    I look down at all my stuff sprawled out on his couch. I need to pack it back up. I am so angry. I am about to say something else then I wake up. 🙁

  • Alyssa // Sep 27, 2011 at 9:50 am

    I have had atleast 4 dreams that I can remember within the last month that my husband has cheated on me. After waking up this morning they seem to be getting worse! Before it would just be something casual, like him kissing a woman in front of me. My most recent one however, I walked in on him having unprotected sex with a stripper! We have been together for five years, and I know without a doubt that he would never cheat on me. I think it is me feeling insecure about myself. We have been married for five years, and since we’ve been married and had a child I have gained some weight and of course he looks the same as he did in high school. I just want these dreams to stop! I wake up feeling sick to my stomach and frankly pissed off at my dream husband for always being unfaithful!

  • Beth // Sep 13, 2011 at 11:27 am

    For the past few months I dream my hubby of 9.5 years is cheating. Lately, it seems to intensify. It started out with just cheating, then went to me hearing the conversations on the phone, then actually seeing the girl, and last night it was that he actually proposed to her right in front of me. What is going on! Why has it gotten so put of control? It’s very upsetting…not bc I think he’s doing in life, but bc it’s so painful. How can I make them stop and why am I having these dreams?

  • Sky // Aug 20, 2011 at 10:11 am

    I keep have the recurring dream that I see my boyfriend with some girl. He ignores her in front of me and when I go to kiss him in front of her, he disappears. I chase after the girl and she tells me about how many girls he was with at the bar. And the BS storys he tells to impress them (because he does lie to impress other people.) Then I confront him and he turns it around on me and just gets mad when I confront him in the dream. I have caught him before, and he did exactly what he did in the dream. Now I guess I cant trust him. I hope if I can finally end it with him, the dreams can stop.

  • Heather // Aug 4, 2011 at 1:58 pm

    I have a reccuring dream about my boyfriend cheating on me. In the dream he’s holding another girl right in front of me and acting as if it is completely normal, and everyone else is too. I yell and get extremely mad; I end up hitting the girl, breaking dishes. But everyone just calls me crazy and says that I’m over reacting.

  • #Confused // Jul 8, 2011 at 1:34 pm

    So lately my boyfriend soon to be husband wakes up in the morning bieng mad at me not wanting to cuddle because he’s been having dreams that I’ve been cheating on him. I know I wouldn’t and I know he wouldn’t. These dreams seem to get worse because now he wakes up and cant seem to sleep. He dreamt that this time he actually killed me for cheating and he said it actually felt real. So I’m kind of scared and don’t know what these dreams are! He says that most of his dreams come true and I’m seriously scared not of him but losing him! He’s my everything and I really can’t seem to see myself doing that!!

  • Friends with benefits // Jun 30, 2011 at 9:29 am

    Now that I’m in a serious relationship with my boyfriend of two years I keep dreaming about having an affair with an old “friend with benefits” I used to have or that my current boyfriend and him meet. I usually wake up confused and insecure and it’s getting harder to tell my bf what the dreams are about even though he says that it’s just a dream and to forget about it, but I can’t. Why do I keep dreaming about him?

  • Whitney // Jun 10, 2011 at 9:54 pm

    I had a dream that my boyfriend cheated on me; in the dream, I found out because I saw a photo of the three(!) women he’d slept with (at once!). After I saw the photo and, of course, yelled and screamed at him, my boyfriend started acting like he didn’t know me; he stopped talking to me altogether. So I packed up (in particular, I started packing up my books) and got ready to leave. I didn’t want to leave, but I had to, because he was ignoring me.

  • Nada // May 19, 2011 at 12:51 am

    I dreamed that my husband was sitting with a woman and this woman is my mother’s cousin. She is supposed to be old but in the dream she looked young. They were touching one another’s hands and I accused him of cheating on me as I felt it. First they denied it and then she told me to calm down. He just made oral things with her and she wrote what he did on the glass of the window. I kept shouting and he was very very calm but not denying anything. And I discovered other things he did also and I kept shouting. The strange thing is that I went out of this room and I met one of my work colleagues who is a conservative and we do not talk much and he offered help nicely. I said no thank you in order not to make my husband upset.

  • jessica // Apr 23, 2011 at 12:01 pm

    So there is a guy named “Juan” that I used to always talk to. We talked for about 9 months – we really like each other. Put it like this, a lot of people asked if we went out. He would walk me to class every day, we would just stop talk and stop seeing each other. About 3months ago I had a dream that he had called me out of class and I came out then I hugged him. My heart was racing for some reason and he said that he thought it would be better if we didn’t hug so neither of us would catch feelings. That left me speechless. His friend walked by and they exchanged a few words. Then they went around the building and they started to argue with a group of guys. I held him back from fighting that group of guys. I went back to class and when I sat down I started to cry. I don’t know if I was scared, sad or upset, or all three. What does this dream mean?

  • bobby // Mar 19, 2011 at 9:21 am

    I had I dream last night that I cheated on my boyfriend with my best mate (who is a guy.) And a few weeks ago I had a dream I was cheating on him with my ex :'( I wake up feeling guilty and self conscious for the whole day!!

  • June // Mar 4, 2011 at 7:08 am

    My husband works out of province for the past years now, and from what I notice it is about the same time of the year. Well the dream I had was that I was visiting him, and he wouldn’t take a look, or visit with me. I walked up to him, asked, “Are you cheating on me? If so just be a man about it and tell me.” He walked past me not saying a word. Then I said “I’m leaving you”, and walked out. Then woke up.

    This is not the first dream I had of him cheating. But for real I find stuff that doesn’t make sense, like the last time he was out, his “new” laptop had no history on it, yet he had it for most of his time away from us. He came home for a visit, he checked my computer history read my MSN messages. I feel that he is ….

    I stay for my 6 kids. I talk and I tell him how I feel, what I think. That I will be leaving him if he doesn’t start sharing his thoughts n feelings with me or showing me more affection, passion and romance. He is just cold after the past two years going on three years. When I do come straight out and ask him if he is cheating he says no or does nothing at all. I tell him about my dream and he laughs….

  • leigh // Mar 2, 2011 at 7:29 am

    I had a dream that my partner was working in some house and when I went to see him I found him in bed with the woman that owned the house. When they saw me they didn’t care. I was upset but they didn’t understand what the problem was. Then her husband came home with their children and found me in a state.

    He asked me what was wrong and I told him that I had caught his wife having sex with my partner. He smiled and said, “Is that all. I thought it was something serious.” He said that he knew all about it and acted like it was normal. They all went round like there was nothing wrong and I was the mad one. They thought that I should be ok with it like it is something everyone does.
    I don’t think it has anything to do with our sex life; I know he’s not cheating on me and I would never cheat on him. This is really bugging me. I need to know what this means. When I woke up I was in a mood with him and he did nothing wrong!

  • ashley // Feb 24, 2011 at 4:35 am

    Lately for the past months I’ve been dreaming of my husband cheating and it feels so real to me and when I wake up I start thinking. And then I realized it was an ex-boyfriend from high school and each time I dream about him I see him at my job with his present girlfriend or friends shopping.

  • Tara // Feb 15, 2011 at 11:58 pm

    My boyfriend dreamt that he and I were talking then something happened and we were pulled away from each other. Then a person ran towards him and he thought it was me, but when the person came closer their face was just a black blank. Then he wanted to go closer but his head started hurting and he tried calling me!

  • Emma // Jan 31, 2011 at 5:33 pm

    I’ve been married to my husband for 3years and we have a son together. After I changed jobs, I started having dreams about my husband having an affair and choosing the other woman over me. These dreams have made me check his facebook, I haven’t found anything to suggest he is having an affair so it must be me feeling insecure. I think it’s because if he did leave me I’d be screwed because I’m on his visa and his parents can afford to help him fight me for custody of our son. Yep it is me.

  • confused // Jan 12, 2011 at 3:11 pm

    i had a dream last night where im at a party with my family & a guy i knew & hated back in elementary. i havent even seen or heard from him since elementary but i had a dream he was there & me & him were dancing & hugging. we wondered off to be alone but as soon as he was about to kiss me i said no! i cant i have a boyfriend! i dont cheat! And there were other wierd things in my dream but there not too important. but i dont know. what could it mean? =/

  • disturbed // Jan 10, 2011 at 8:19 am

    I’ve been having dreams lately that I’m cheating on my boyfriend of 5 years whom I love to death! we will eventually get married and I would never cheat in real life. The dreams are always with the same guy who happens to be a close friend of ours. This friend always flirts with me in real life but now he has a girl he is seeing. Last night my dream was about me actually having sex with him. I’ve had dreams before about him but its only been kissing or cuddling or telling him I liked him a lot. It was never all the way and last night it was. I’ve had dreams of my man cheating too but I know he wouldn’t cheat and neither would I! I feel incredibly guilty the next day and it makes me nervous to be around this friend sometimes..I think it might stem from my boyfriend accusing me of cheating on him multiple times with various friends of his, but thats from his own insecurities and probably because he has the same dreams.. It just sucks and I want it to stop. I love my bf and this is killing me!

  • anonymous // Jan 8, 2011 at 5:18 am

    I had a dream about my girl friend of 5 yrs. In the dream she had a good friend of mine with her in our room, as I got off from work. I went to the room to try to see if my gf was sleeping with the lights off…but what I saw was a sex in a ride position. As soon as I turned the light on, my friend and my GF jumped out of the bed and started blaming each other..And my friend was trying to run and I stopped him, thinking of rearranging his face. I was sooo heart-broken and woke up in tears…couldn’t stop crying..I’m desperate to know why this is the second time with the same guy.

  • Caty // Jan 2, 2011 at 6:59 am

    Ok so, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, and were both in our senior year of high school. Back when we were about to start dating, I liked one of my friends, who I knew had been in love with me since we here kids, and my soon-to-be boyfriend equally, and they were bestfriends. Anyway, throughout the two years I’ve been with my boyfriend, I’ve had ordeals where I wondered what my life would be like with the other guy, which would eventually go away after I remembered how much I love my boyfriend and do not want to be with the other guy.
    Anyway, sorry for the long back story, for the past month or so I keep having dreams where I cheat on my boyfriend with the other guy. Each one is different, so I can’t say its exactly recurring, but each time I feel happy and excited and dangerous. And depending on the dream we either kiss, have sex, or I just tell him I love him.
    Please understand that I love my boyfriend more than I thought was possible. He’s my bestfriend, and after college we plan on getting married.
    I don’t really know what my subconcious is trying to tell me, although it may be pretty obvious that I want to be with the other guy.
    Please help?

  • Natalie // Dec 27, 2010 at 12:30 am

    I had a dream that I cheated on my boyfriend with my best friend, just kissing nothing more, but now me and my ex boyfriend has been broken up for about 8 months now, and guess who I’m now dating… my best friend. Does this mean that we will have a long term relationship because I actually dreamnt of being with him basically, and now I am??

  • AFRAID // Dec 9, 2010 at 5:56 am

    I had a dream last night that my boyfriend cheated on me with the girl my EX cheated on me with before. In the dream I was there the whole time and I tried to stop them, but nothing worked. Then they disappeared and now I am the only one in the house, wtf? I called him, and he says he will call back. Then I start sweeping the floor. That was the end of the dream.

  • Emily // Dec 3, 2010 at 7:18 pm

    So… I had a dream that i cheated on my boyfriend with my cousin. But it’s not my real life cousin. He sits next to me in class. I havent been kissing my boyfriend becasue i’ve been sick lately. Me and my ‘cousin’ were laughing about it while we made out on the couch. Then my ‘cousin’ went away cause it was only a family reunion. I didn’t see him for a year, and then we made out again at the next family reunion. Im really confused by this dream. My cousin’s 20 years older than me, and i was like, 13 in the dream. Help?

  • shawn // Nov 21, 2010 at 11:34 am

    I had a dream that my wife didn’t want me to cuddle with her at night, so she gave me one of her friends as a cuddle buddy. After a couple of nights sleeping with her friend we had sex.

    After the sex the world started collapsing – buildings falling down and demons coming from the ground. I am in the army so I linked up with my seniors and tried to rally all Soldiers that were still alive to get to our Company’s arms room so we could have weapons. After we got our weapons and ammo me and another guy came across a monster made of spaghetti with one eye and he would throw his eye down a cave then drag it back. We were limited on ammo so I figured if I shot his eye I would render the demon useless. So I shot it but he just pulled out another eye from his spaghetti head. (I did read about the flying spaghetti monster religion about a month prior to this. However they looked nothing alike.)

    Well more adventure like this happened but the dream ended with all the demons going back where they came from and my cuddle buddy tried to proposition me again. The night I had this dream I was in a stressful environment separated from my family and on pain killers for my back.

  • Summer // Nov 12, 2010 at 8:27 am

    I keep having a dream that my boyfriend cheats on me. I walk in and he is always in bed with the same girl even though I have no idea who she is. Not only that but for some reason he is always so mean to me in it. I don’t get it cause its nothing like real life. He is a sweetheart we were each others first and we have been together for 5 years?? I dont know why I keep dreaming these awful things.

  • Matt // Nov 3, 2010 at 10:04 pm

    I just had a dream about my girlfriend, not cheating on me but being dishonest with me. We have been broken up for about 2 weeks now and we are in the middle of talking about getting back together. In the dream, I called her and asked her to come hang out, she said no and that she was hanging out with her Sister (That happens alot in real life) so I called her Sister and her Sister was out at a pub and tried to lie to me and say that she was coming home to hang out with my girlfriend later. When I hung up the phone from her sister I saw her standing next to me and I was parked outside a hotel. I asked her what she was doing her and she said “Nothing, hanging out with some friends” When I pushed her to tell me and asked her why she lied to me. She cracked (In real life she can’t lie, she is awful at it.) and said she was “experimenting” I asked with what and with who she said “With drugs, and ‘just friends’ ” and I walked away and bunch a random boat that was sitting in the drive way.

    I then woke up in tears and texted her and told her and she promised me that would never happen, but I have my doubts as she flirts a lot but I know she would never cheat on me in real life.

    Just confused because it was SO real, I touched her in the dream and we were not sleeping in the same bed at the time, and it felt EXACTLY like her. she was waring cloths she has and uses a fair bit. Just so real, I don’t really believe / turn to this stuff, but once again, I can’t believe it was so real.

    When you have a dream and you wake up and can kind of remember what happened, but when you try and remember what people said in the dream all you can remember is them staring at you with their mouth shut. I can remember it completely, from start to finish in vivid detail.

  • please help // Oct 31, 2010 at 9:04 am

    Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend was cheating on me with one of my best friends. He didn’t talk to me for days and then when I finally got a hold him he said he wasn’t cheating but we were done. Someone I knew told me, “now you know they have been hanging out. You know they did it.” So I asked the friend and she denied it. Then throughout my dream all of my exs besides one all somehow came to where I was and told me how horrible I was and I would never get them back.. What does all of this mean?

  • Mariha // Sep 9, 2010 at 4:20 am

    So im gay & my girl & me have been together a year now. the first 75% of our relationship was stupid lies…like age. who she talks to, who shes slept with & different stuff. we broke up for about a month & got back together. her ‘best friend’ which is a dude has been around the whole time & i swore they were way too close to just b best friends. when we got back together she admitted she slept with him a while back only once, which i accused her of forever & when we first got together, i found out she had slept with my cousin but it was a “mistake”, it was way before we got together so i couldnt punish her for that but we been back together for about 3 months now & i have the same dreams over and over. like its 7:08am n i jus had a dream about her n my cousin cuddling n i just stood there n she didnt even care. dreams r soo real n it eats me alive…i also jus have dreams of her leaving with her best friend n im callin for her and she dont come back, rejection, i guess. i jus dont know what to do. she “changing” and she dont talk to him anymore but even tho i kno what shes doin all day everyday doesnt take the pain away from these dreams that feel so real. i wake up & look at her & it make me real ill mannered torwards her n idk if my dreams r trying to tell me something or i just cant let go of the past…its ruining my relationship

  • Kara // Aug 18, 2010 at 11:56 am

    I had a dream where I caught my boyfriend in bed with my sister. They were both butt-naked, and he was kissing her neck passionately. It was so messed up!

  • Batya // Jul 17, 2010 at 2:39 am

    Both my partner and I are having dreams about cheating on each other and sometimes have dreams that I am cheating on her and she is cheating on me. Last night I had a dream where I found out she had been having sexual conversations on the internet (she has just got her own laptop and I discovered she had been watching porn within the week she had recieved it)

    These dreams have been going on for a while now and they are really starting to get me down. what can I do to stop these dreams from being so hurtful or how do I stop actually having them???

  • ssp // Jun 30, 2010 at 5:47 pm

    I keep having a dream that my husband is cheating on me. I been with him for 4 years and married for one. Since then he has cheated on me and back then I had the same feeling and it was true. Do u think that it’s the same thing all over again?

  • Lost // Jun 26, 2010 at 6:47 am

    For the last 5 days I’ve been having a re-curring dream that my fiance is about to find out he has a 3 year old daughter (whom might I add, looks exactly like my 5 year old son). I called him to ask him about it, and he said: “no, that can’t be so.” However, his re-assurance to me was: “if, I have kids that I don’t know about, believe me they are way older than 3 years old.” Can somebody help me. What does this dream mean?

  • Erica // Jun 9, 2010 at 7:51 am

    Ok my girlfriend is having dreams that she cheats on me. I know she can’t be because I’m with her every day and every night. What does this mean? Does it mean she wants to be with someone else?

  • Kianna // May 18, 2010 at 12:28 pm

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and three months and we are very serious, however recently we got in a big fight and split up (only for 48 hours) but within those 48 hours he slept with another female. I was already insecure and jealous but when he did this it set me off the edge. I keep having dreams about him cheating on me with the girl that he slept with, and even some dreams that he sleeps with random ex’s of his or various friends of mine. I desperately need to have these dreams stop if I am going to have a healthy relationship. I tell my boyfriend about these dreams and he just brushes it off but I think they mean more. Any thoughts on what this may mean??

  • Bruised Heart // Apr 15, 2010 at 5:49 am

    I’ve been with my bf for 2 years and 6 months. During this period he has asked for “breaks”. And during every break he got someone new. This happened 3 times. But just recently, Nov 2009 he cheated and left me for another girl. When I took him back later on he admitted to still being sexually active with her and that she’s pregnant but doesn’t know if the kid is his or not. I 4gave him yet again. And for a month now he says he hasn’t come in contact with her and he says he loves me too much to do it again because now he’s sees what he has. But lately I’ve been having really bad dreams of him cheating with her and many others…
    Please help me… should I believe them?

  • HelpMe // Mar 28, 2010 at 7:19 am

    Reading through these replies, it’s nice to know I’m not the only one who has very, very vivid dreams that are powerful enough to effect the way I feel toward someone.

    My most often dream is that my husband is cheating on me. He was married when we met (online) and for two years I never knew. I think this plays a huge part in it, but it still bothers me. I wake up with my face covered in tears & it always leaves me feeling a little shaken. I know he’s not cheating on me, so I wonder if it’s me being unconsciously afraid that he eventually will…

  • Jaded Reverie // Mar 26, 2010 at 9:52 am

    I’ve had dreams about all of my past boyfriends cheating on me. In a couple, I cheated on them too.
    I really love my boyfriend now, we live together and have been together for 9 months. I keep having dreams that he is cheating on me with different girls. Some of them I know, and have not trusted in the past. Others are completely random and not even people I know. Every time, he doesn’t care at all while I’m crying and reaching out for him to stay. I suppose I am the jealous one in the relationship, since he may have had a little slip up when he was plastered one night while we were in different countries. I know that I am very jealous in this relationship. I wish my dreams would stop. I’ve had many dreams on this subject that came true in the past. I just hope this isn’t one of them.

  • Nicole // Mar 16, 2010 at 5:09 pm

    I caught my boyfriend talking to another girl. Ever since Then Ii can’t sleep. I constantly have a dream that he’s cheating and loves her more and leaves me for her. It happens differently every time and its killing me.

  • kristi k // Mar 6, 2010 at 12:06 am

    I keep having the same dream over and over again. In the dream I’m cheating on my boyfriend with one of my ex-boyfriends. What does this mean? Could it be that I want to cheat on my boyfriend with one of my ex-boyfriends?

  • colbine // Jan 30, 2010 at 8:18 pm

    had a dream my boyfriend said i love you to my bestfriend

  • JoJo // Jan 21, 2010 at 12:03 pm

    About 10 months ago my boyfriend cheated on me. Now and again and moreso over the last 2 weeks I have been dreaming that he does it again, but always with a different girl. I had a dream last night that I caught him kissing and declaring his love to someone I know (but don’t know in real life). I confronted them and he denied everything claiming they’re just friends but as I walked off I hid round the corner and peeped round to find them kissing again. But again when I confronted them they denied it. Eventually I believe I broke up with him as I have a vivid memory of myself at home crying with anger whilst looking at a computer (laptop), cursing his name and myself for giving him another chance. I am generally a happy person now although issues with my weight have worsened since he cheated. What could this mean (despite the obvious!)?

  • Nina // Jan 10, 2010 at 9:45 am

    This is to CAROLINE. I had a dream like you did and at the time I was with my ex boyfriend. I was walking down a hallway with my ex and I could see at the end of the hallway my bestfriend. When we finally reached him I gave my ex a hug and when I turned to look at my bestfriend he was standing in my ex’s place. My bestfriend and I then left down that hallway and we were smiling, happy and holding hands. I think it’s a sign that you two have something special…you never know. As for me I went with my instict and I have been with him(my bestfriend) for 3 years. I think of it as sign.I wish you nothing but the best goodluck!

  • jazmin // Dec 6, 2009 at 1:39 pm

    I have that dream of him everynite since I ran into him and the story was that I was too young but we had a very small go before all the drama and in my dream were touching, hugging kissing it feels so real. I told my hubby he thinks its funny. I don’t cuz I don’t go to sleep thinking of him. Why is he in my dreams? We talk here and there but don’t mean I wanna end my relationship. I have a wonderful family. Why is this recurring?

  • jazmin // Dec 6, 2009 at 1:32 pm

    I have this recurring dream its bothers the hell out of me I’ve been married 3 years but we’ve been together 6. I have a dream that one of my husbands coworker and I are rekindling our old flame becuz yes of course my luck I liked him when I was a teen and now I hadn’t seen him in 8 yrs and now every time I go to his work there he iz but in my dream were trying to spark the flame what does this mean? My relationship is wonderful my husband works hard treats my great I still look in his eyes and see that look he gave me when we first met can someone please tell me what this means I have it every nite he’s good looking but damn I’m stuck like why what does it mean please help me

  • K.R. // Nov 23, 2009 at 3:48 pm

    I had a dream we were with our other “couple” friends. In the dream my husband and my friend were just being too friendly – it is strange because I remember it so vividly! All four of us (my husband and I and my friend and her boyfriend) were at a table and they were really close to each other and touchy… in the dream I was livid! I remember specifically getting in between them before anything happened and even had a fist about to go her way, until I stopped my self and blamed the fist on a hand spasm. No Joke, I remember it clear as day, I woke up furious and it took a few minutes to realize it was just a dream. I trust my husband with all my heart, but now I am questioning how much I trust her… Could this be a sign that she has negative intentions?

  • biggie // Nov 8, 2009 at 5:19 am

    I have a recurring dream that my wife is cheating on me. Everytime it is with someone new but it is someone I know everyt ime. Now when we first started dating she did cheat and we stayed together because it was so early on in our relationship. I’ve had these dreams ever since. I tell her about them and all she does is get mad and tell me it was one time and she hasn’t done it since, but I usually have a dream once a week. We have gone to counceling and nothing has ever helped. When I wake up from the dream it seems so real that I can’t tell if it is true or not. Can anyone shed some light on this for me and help me out?

  • JOjo // Nov 5, 2009 at 11:04 am

    I had a dream my boyfriend was talking to a girl in the park. The funny part is that in the dream she is supposed to be someone I knew but in reality I don’t know her. I caught them talking from far as I was walking through the park. There were some guys playing basketball. They kind of tackled me – it was almost like it was plan, cause by the time I got there they were both gone, and my best friend was there standing right next them. He acted like he didn’t even care. I asked my best friend, “so what do u think? are they messing around?”. She said yes, and it looks like it’s serious too.

  • Jessica // Nov 1, 2009 at 9:14 am

    last night i had two dreams about cheating on my boyfriend. the first one, i was with a senior from my school and when he kissed me in the dream i enjoyied it. but in my second dream, i was at a party and i was talking with a sophmore from my school. we were saying that we want to be with each other but my boyfriend was holding us back. in this dream i felt happy but also regretful. and i woke up wondering where my relationship with my boyfriend was going.

    what does these two dreams mean?
    please help me! im so confused!

  • maria // Oct 10, 2009 at 6:13 am

    I had this wiered dream that my boyfriend owned a playboy house . I tried looking for him to see if he is cheating on me with other playmates. So in order to get down to where he is I had to be flushed down by a toilet, but this time it wouldn’t let me. So I had no other way to get to him.

    Can anyone please tell me what this means please

  • freak // Sep 25, 2009 at 8:42 pm

    I dreamed that a woman came to our house seduced my husband and they had sex in front of me, but suddenly somebody came so they stop what they are doing and the girl steps out and my husband accompanies her on her way out of our house, and that’s the time I got mad at the girl and shouted at her…

  • Jessica // Sep 19, 2009 at 11:43 pm

    What does it mean when you dream that your ex is dating your best friend and he wants to have an affair with you? ive had this dream like 3 times in a row now all with the same ex and best friend, and it’s really really starting to freak me out

  • Tom // Sep 2, 2009 at 4:59 pm

    Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few weeks now. I’ve grown to like her a lot now almost to the point of love. Our relationship has been fine so far maybe a little rocky at times but otherwise well. During the past weeks I had 2 dreams where she cheated on me. The first one, my girlfriend cheated on me with my good friend while my good friend cheated on his girlfriend. I was discussing this with all 4 of us when freakishly my good friend’s girlfriend said she had that same dream, that same night! Again, last night I had another cheating dream. This time it was much more vivid and detailed. This time me and a group of friends including my girlfriend were walking down a block. My girlfriend seemed to be frustrated with me for some reason. Then, randomly an acquaintance from school I haven’t seen in a very long time showed up. Him and my girlfriend have been in a previous relationship before ours. Him and my girlfriend started hugging. Then he asks if he could have a kiss. I look at my girlfriend with a confident look knowing she wouldn’t do it. But, of course she ignored that look and went on kissing. I was devastated and filled with rage after that. At this point, still dreaming, I walked off with my girlfriend’s good friend and started asking why she would do a thing like that. She was just as confused as I was. Than randomly she said they just hooked up. I ran back and asked my girlfriend if that was true. She responded with a yes. I broke up with her and strangely, she didn’t even know why. The rest of the dream I was walking down a deserted street all alone.

  • Melissa // Sep 1, 2009 at 11:17 pm

    My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. It has been rocky the last couple of months to the point where he decided it would be best if we broke up. We stayed together realising there were thngs we needed to work on and are presently very happy. I had a dream that he was holding another girls hand but when I was near he let go and I brushed it off as nothing. as the dream went on this girl was with always with us and I eventually walked in on the two of them kissing. I wasn’t angry, just devistated and very sad.

  • Ashleigh // Sep 1, 2009 at 11:00 am

    So I had two dreams in a row of my boyfriend of 3 yrs cheating on me with one of the girls he works with. && for a while he was really good friends with her. He told me he stopped talking to her, and I believe him. But these two dreams kinda make me think otherwise or maybe i am just really Insecure about me.
    The first one he is in a office-like room & I come in they are laughing and talking and ignoring me. I get that he is happy with her because he was laughing & smiling, which I’ve only seen him do a few times.
    (I wake up & I’m a little bit upset, I rolled over and put my arm around him.)
    When I tried to go back to sleep my Second dream left me in it or at least that’s how it seemed.
    I walk in to see them messing around on a chair, I grab him & take him out to a multi-level parking garage were we begin to argue. He tells me some hurtful things & I ask him why he wouldn’t just tell me & he says some more really hurtful things.Tthings that it wouldn’t be in his nature to say.
    I woke up crying, but at this point he is getting ready for work and in the shower.
    He asked me whats wrong and he told me not to worry about the stupid dreams I had been having. And that he loved me.
    (my Question is. why would I be insecure if my boyfriend is not cheating & how do I overcome such feelings?)
    – but if he is, do the dreams continue until I find out for myself? –

  • mary // Aug 16, 2009 at 8:43 pm

    also forgot to mention that my mother in my dream imitates me as well as she does in real life. And lately in my dreams i have seen my mother being pregnant in the dream same time as me and then in the dream found out a confession accidently that they were doing something together all along and my husband would be crying cause he cares for me yet feels trapped with my mother in my dream and she would be over riding him in all he does and say towards me. Please help and explain what my dreams are trying to warn me about? Thank you mary again

  • mary // Aug 16, 2009 at 8:32 pm

    been having re-occuring dreams since my first child was 8 months old and it was about my 28 yr old husband having an affair with my 49 yr old mother.
    And it would be catching them out in the dream having an affair and doing things to suggest that they were doing something together and me being so furiouse and so scared and shocked and extreemely emotional all rolled in one.
    Then one time in my dream i saw them in a motel together in the dream and saw great detail of what my mother was doing kinky stuff to my husband yet i did not see his face, but yet the feeling in my dream that it was him know what i mean.
    Still it goes on the dream and we have a second child who is 4 yrs old n my first is now 6 .
    Yet when i confront my husband about my dreams he says it is just a dream and he has done nothing but yet i sense in real life that my mother has always fancied my hubby but never will admitt to.
    And feels that he is aware of it but just does not tell me.
    What is my dreams meaning, is it a warning?
    If so, how can i change it if it is harmful or hurtful to me in my life?
    Thank you mary

  • Crystal // Aug 13, 2009 at 8:58 pm

    I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and at least 3 times a month i have a dream that i catch him cheating on me. Its always a different girl, but they are always really thin and pretty. I always walk up to the girl and beat her a** and he just doesn’t seem to care that I just caught him. Then I wake up and I’m in a really shitty mood all day. he told me i need to go see a shrink or something so they can help me fix this. but i don’t want to and that costs a lot of money. It is really making me very angry its been going on for over a year. I need help

  • Roberta // Jun 10, 2009 at 1:45 pm

    My boyfriend keeps on having dreams that he’s cheating on me. It’s different girls every time… makes me feel angry in a way. Does it mean that he’s losing interest in me??

  • Brittini // May 23, 2009 at 9:37 am

    I had a dream just recently about this guy I really like. In the dream I’m going through my high school counselor’s files and come across a list with people’s names on it and his name is at the very top. Funny thing is he is not from my school so why would my counselor have his name down so I asked her and she told me he was on there because he believed in another wife.The way she said it made it sound almost like a religious thing. In reality I graduated last night. Me and this guy are going are seperate ways for college he likes me but he doesn’t want a girlfriend right now, and I have been single for the past 2 years waiting for someone who will be my boyfriend in well in less than a week, but I still have strong feelings for the new guy that I dreamed about.

  • kirsty // May 8, 2009 at 7:39 pm

    I have been having a dream about my boyfriend cheating on me. It’s a different girl every time, but the feeling of anger and hurt are the same. I wake up crying. He says that its not true and I believe him, but these dreams are making me feel angry towards him. It’s driving me mental!!!

  • jose // Apr 17, 2009 at 12:02 pm

    i had a dream last night were my girlfrien was cheating on me right in front of me inside my car, i didn’t know what was going on so my first reaction was to kick the guys a**, so in the dream i nearly killed him with a bat i have in my car, and that bat in my dream is really in my car.. its driving me nuts, what does the dream mean??

  • Devin // Apr 15, 2009 at 11:19 am

    My ex-boyfriend told me a dream he had the other day (which happened to be the day after we broke up) and he said that in the dream, we were still dating and we were at our house hanging out with one of his friends, Sean. He said that Sean was being extremely nice to me and we were flirting and then my boyfriend had to leave for work. But in his dream, when he came home from work early, he caught me and Sean having sex. He said that when he caught us, I didn’t act like I cared or anything and he almost got in a fight with Sean. I would reeeaaallly like to know what this means..We’re having a lot of trouble right now tryin to figure out what’s going on with our relationship.

  • caroline // Mar 6, 2009 at 12:46 pm

    I keep having short dreams about the same guy (my bf’s acquaintance) previously but we weren’t doing anything. Just talking and then we disappeared.

    Last night, we were talking on msn and he asked me on flings. In my sleep, I dreamed that I was cheating on my bf with HIM and we were happy, holding hands and eating together etc – just like a typical couple. It was a long dream.

    strange thing was, I NEVER remember any details previously but this time when I woke up, it was vividly clear and it felt like it actually happened.

    Is this a sign the guy likes me and he wants a fling with me?

  • Brittany // Mar 4, 2009 at 10:48 am

    I keep having dreams about my boyfriend cheating with a particular girl that he messed with while we were broken up. In the dreams they know I’m there and I see them but they continue doing what they are doing. Like they don’t care. I’m steady yelling, crying, and fighting with him asking him why? But he doesn’t say anything. He just goes back to her. He never breaks up with me when I tell him to and I never leave him, though. I don’t understand it! It is driving me crazy! What does it mean?

  • cynthia // Feb 26, 2009 at 1:43 pm

    i have a had dreams about my boyfriend cheating on me two nights in a row we’ve together 3 years i tell him these dreams and he kinda laughs it off and tells me its just me being insecure. i know i havent done anything for him to cheat i even told him that in one of my dreams. in one of them he told me he has been cheating on me with diffrent girls

  • sonia // Nov 9, 2008 at 12:00 am

    My Boyfriend had a dream that me and a strange girl were best friends and that in his dream he was going to cheat right in front of me. He described it and said that he was in between her legs while he was standing and she was sitting on the bed with both their clothes on. He said that in the dream she was telling him that I wouldn’t care and that he kept looking at me and tried to get a “go” and that I didn’t look mad or sad I had a blank expression, and I never answered him. And then he pulled away.

  • Lilly // Oct 10, 2008 at 5:21 am

    I just had a dream that my boyfriend of 4 years had taken another girl to her prom. In the dream I hated her from the past but I didn’t even know her , so to me I guess she epresents the girl he really cheated on me with in the past. I found pictures and then I went down to the place and whopped her ass but he just sat there like whatever…. I don’t know what to think because in the dream I supposed he’s with her when he tells me he’s busy & when he doesn’t call me.

  • used and abused // Sep 19, 2008 at 3:19 pm

    I had a vivid dream that my husband had an affair with a co-worker of mine during my pregnancy.

  • John // Aug 23, 2008 at 8:31 am

    I had a dream last night about my girlfriend cheating on me with our co-worker whom I hate. I kicked their asses in the dream, but it didn’t help. She admitted (in the dream) she was cheating and never bothered giving me an excuse for it. Does that mean I’m insecure? Do I care too much for her?? Do I hate him so much and the fact that they used to work together and have a fair friendship is making me jealous???
    I had dreams of her cheating on me before and she also had dreams about myself cheating on her. Does it mean anything, or it’s just a dream???

  • anton // Aug 11, 2008 at 9:57 pm

    Sorry everyone, I had a recurring dream of my wife in the bed with another man and me catching them and physically harming her. A few days ago, I read an explict e-mail she sent to someone and she admitted she’d been cheating for almost a year. So in my case the dreams were literal because they started around the time she said she had started cheating.

  • Alissa // Aug 11, 2008 at 3:18 pm

    I have the same kind of dream! I generally chock it up to insecurity (although my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years) and I know he would never cheat on me.

  • Liz // Aug 11, 2008 at 10:53 am

    I’ve been having similar dreams. I had one just last night about me having a hunch that he’s been cheating on me and then some lady told me that when he’s not with me and he’s cheating. I’ve been feeling insecure lately, so it might just be that.

  • Jess // Aug 11, 2008 at 9:22 am

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now. Hes broken up with me twice. The second time he started dating another girl. Who I hate. He broke up with her to be with me again. But I keep having dreams he’s cheating on me with her. Its different in every dream. But it’s always the same girl. He told me he doesn’t talk to her anymore. And I believe him. But what does this mean?

  • Jonathan // Jul 19, 2008 at 6:51 pm

    It could just be that you’re feeling a bit insecure.

  • Nat // Jul 1, 2008 at 6:24 pm

    I keep have re-occuring dreams that I find out my boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me. It’s a different girl everytime. Not one specific girl. In the dream he doesn’t seem to care and I never seem to leave him. I just cry and scream and beat at him asking why? Could someone please tell me what this means cuz it’s really starting to bother me. I’ve told my boyfriend and he says he hasn’t and I believe him so what does this dream mean?

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