If you were the one abandoned, how old were you? Check for feelings of being lost/overwhelmed regarding a current situation, possibly rooted in the past at the age you were in the dream, or a situation that began that many years ago. Otherwise, it can suggest feelings of being misguided/misled, possibly reflecting present or old situations with respect to your family, especially if you’re working to separate yourself from family experiences/situations. It can also signal estrangement from your unconscious; having lost sight of your spirit, your greater life goals, or your life purpose.

If you did the abandoning check for feelings of relief of guilt. Is this a new or typical action for you? Is there a situation in your life you wish you could handle by “reckless abandon,” especially an oppressive or sexual one? The abandonment is common theme for people experiencing severe depression after separation; it can signal the need for therapeutic help.